Create a welcoming environment for your small group. Ideally, chairs are arranged around a table, or there are chairs in a circle. However, this depends on where you meet. You may decide to have some kind of devotional help (a reminder that your time together is set apart, such as a candle, cross or icon) or you may not. You may wish to have a written agenda for the evening, and the group expectations visible, although that is also optional.
- An extra copy of Meeting Jesus in the Gospel of John prayer journal in case a participant forgets his or hers.
- Books of Common Prayer for each participant, or access to bcponline.org. Hymnals optional.
- A bible (or smartphone; you can access a free New Revised Standard Version at bible.oremus.org) for use during worship.
- Please see small group activity for possible materials needed.
- Participants will be able to articulate the importance of sharing the story of God’s love with others.
Invite participants to be seated comfortably either around a table or in a circle of chairs. If there is a candle, light the candle. Invite participants into a period of silence. You may wish to keep silence for 1-4 minutes. However long you decide, let the group know how long it will be, and that you are keeping time. At the end of the silence, pray this or another suitable prayer:
Blessed Savior, send us into the world, so that, like you, we may bear witness to God’s light and life. Turn us loose, Lord, to be a channel of your love, an instrument of your compassion, a minister of your grace. Amen.
Using the process of mutual invitation as outlined in “Getting Started: Meeting Jesus” begin the check-in process with your group.
- Where did you see God at work in the world around you this week?
- How was the process of journaling? What surprised you? (N.B. this is a question about process “How did journaling/praying go for you?” not content “What did you journal about?”)
Small Group Activity:
As your time together concludes, the brothers are asking how you might take what you’ve seen, heard or learned out into the world. For this small group activity, participants will take time to think through a way to share their experience with a wider community, and make plans to implement it.
If your group is not attached to a parish, your group might consider:
- Make a short video to post online! It could be as simple as different members sitting down in front of the camera and saying where they met Jesus. Or, members could write, “I met Jesus [fill in where/how they met Jesus]” on signs and simply walk on and off of camera on after the other. If you do post online, please use the hashtag, #MeetingJesus.
- Find another way to engage a social media platform that reflects the group’s experience.
- Plan a day where the group will reach people together. You might consider an act of service, like working together at a food bank or a homeless grate patrol, or a reaching out in love to your neighborhood by offering prayers or other goodwill to passersby. Get creative about your specific context! How can you remind people of God’s immense love?
- Take sidewalk chalk and chalk up the sidewalks in your neighborhood with encouraging words about God’s love.
If you are attached to a parish, and would like to share your experience with your parish, your group might consider:
- Making the video as outlined above, except to show your congregation.
- Prepare a short presentation for your parish. To make this really effective, consider asking a member or two of your group to tell a personal story about how they met Jesus, or about how their life has been changed by God.
- Talk to your parish leadership and see if the group could offer a story/stories in lieu of a sermon at a point in the near future. Take the time to plan a sermon together. What are your most important take-aways from your time together?
- Make a word cloud, collage, or other art on a posterboard, present it at the announcements or another adult education venue, and display it on the bulletin board.
Small Group Conversation:
Directed conversation is the heart of a small group. Sharing our personal stories and accounts of faith is only possible in an atmosphere of trust and mutuality. Tips for a fruitful conversation can be found here.
Here are some questions to get your conversation started. It may be that you move through all of them, or have a deep conversation with the first question you ask. You may choose to ask your own question that speaks to the needs of your group. What matters is that participants are engaged with each other. These questions are based on the experience of the Living God and responses will be unique to each person. There is no right or wrong answers, there is only further discussion and exploration of our relationship with God and one another.
We bear witness to God’s love because first someone witnessed to us. Who are the people in your life who have witnessed God’s love to you?
In the introduction to Week Six, the brothers write, “We are witnesses, both by our words and our deeds, to the Light and Life and Love of God, which have been made known to us in Jesus, our Savior and our Joy.” What are the tangible ways which you can make the Light and Life and Love of God known to those around you?
What are the things that get in the way of us sharing our story of how God loves us with others?
God sends us into to the world to declare what we have seen and heard. What is my testimony about God and God’s love for the world? What is my gospel (i.e. “good news”)?
In the opening prayer, we prayed that we might be made a channel of God’s love. What do you think that means? What images are brought to mind?
What are the best ways to reach other young adults with this message of God’s love?
Invite group members to share feedback with each other by using one of these prompts:
- Where did the group have a lot of energy? Where was the energy lacking?
- Where did you feel close to God? Where did you feel far away from God?
- Where did you meet Jesus in your session today?
- Where did you see light from the Holy Spirit?
- What did you notice about our time together?
- [If short on time!] Please describe our time together in one word.
This can also be a time to solicit feedback about the entirety of your time together.
- Are small groups something the group believes the church should continue doing? Are they interested in moving forward together with another topic or bible study?
- What are you most grateful for over the whole of our time together?
- What moments stand out to you as particularly spirit-filled?
Worship is the time we give thanks to God for all the gifts of our life and for our time together. Because Meeting Jesus in the Gospel of John is a gift of the Society for Saint John the Evangelist, a monastic order in the Episcopal church, we recommend using the Daily Office, which is a cornerstone of monastic life.
Daily Devotions for Individuals and Families, found on pages 136-140 of the Book of Common Prayer, offers a wonderful and simple framework for your prayer time together. You may choose to use the recommended psalms and readings found in the BCP; supplement with our recommended readings; prayers and songs; or choose your own. Hymns may be sung a capella, or read as poetry. Be sure to make time for prayer intercessions, and encourage the group to pray for one another and loved ones.
For the week of We Declare to You, we recommend:
- Scripture: 1 John 1:1-5
- Hymn: Come labor on (Hymnal 1982 #541) Lord, you give the great commission (Hymnal 1982 #528; use alternative tunes Hyfrodol or Abbot’s Leigh. You can find this set to Abbot’s Leigh in Wonder Love and Praise #780) We all are one in mission (Wonder Love and Praise #778)
- Collect: A Prayer attributed to St. Francis (BCP 833)
- It would be appropriate to end your time together by sharing thanksgivings for the particular blessings you have received during your time together.
If your group is meeting in the evening, you may also wish to use the service of Compline, found on page 127. This is a brief, beautiful, and very popular service.
Your worship leader may wish to do something more creative or context-specific, like use another liturgy, lead a meditation, invite participants into silence, lead participants in song, or use prayer beads together. There are many other ways to worship God. Taking into consideration the theme for the week, we invite you to explore what that might look like together.